As our society is pulled farther to extremes, as our children become easier prey to online recruiters, more and more families discover that a loved one’s radicalization is not a niche problem. Here are 5 timely reminders for those of us struggling with a loved one’s extreme beliefs and behaviors in these stressful times:
Spending quality time and participating in activities is a powerful antidote to feelings of distress.
Now is not the time for debate. Extremist groups prey on unresolved grievances. This is a moment for deep and compassionate listening.
Doing so provides a much-needed outlet for expression. Remember, your attentive presence is a powerful affirmation that their feelings are acknowledged and valued. It is also the best prevention against recruiters trying to engage with them.
Protecting young and impressionable minds from graphic content is more important now than ever. Given the ubiquity of media, it’s challenging to fully control what your loved ones see or hear. But do what you can to reduce the constant news updates and alarming content.
Don’t underestimate the power of fear, anxiety, and uncertainty; they can be fertile grounds for extremist ideas to take root.
We run the nation’s first and only free & confidential intervention helpline for families struggling with a loved one’s extreme behaviors. Our free and confidential helpline will help you understand and address your loved one’s attraction to extreme beliefs and behaviors. Call us at 844-49-PEACE (844-497-3223) or email us at help@parents4peace.org.
We are not a crisis line. In case of emergency, contact 911 or 988 immediately.
Parents for Peace offers education, support, and skill-building resources to assist American families in navigating the challenges posed by extreme beliefs and behaviors. In some cases, these beliefs might push individuals to join extremist movements. Our goal: resillient families, safer communities.