Helpline & Interventions

Helpline & Interventions for Families Grappling with Extremism

The parents who founded Parents for Peace had no one to turn to for help as they watched their children slip into extremism. Determined to make sure no other family felt alone or powerless to intervene effectively, Parents for Peace created a confidential and free helpline to assist families with deradicalization interventions.

Do you need help? Call our tollfree helpline today at 1-884-497-3223.

First launched in 2017, the helpline has assisted hundreds of families from across the country and around the world and addressed a wide range of extremist ideologies. Drawing on lessons learned from suicide hotlines and other mental health helplines, the helpline has a formal protocol for evaluating cases, devising specific interventions, monitoring progress, and coaching families to healthy outcomes. Cases are ultimately resolved based on criteria in P4P’s helpline manual, ideally when it appears the at-risk individual is on a healthy path to recovery.

Complex factors that lead individuals into radicalization, most stemming from an underlying anxiety, trauma, or other mental health issue. Extremism functions as a drug of choice, a short-cut to numbing pain. Our intervention effort involves de-escalating from the ‘shortcut’ path back to a place where the core issues driving the initial turn to extremism can be addressed. When properly understood, the same vulnerabilities that were exploited by extremist groomers can instead become openings for healthy engagement. Our strategic approach involves guiding families and other potential mentors to find these openings and begin to redirect the individual, replacing the unhealthy influence of the traffickers/groomers.

Complex factors that lead individuals into radicalization, most stemming from an underlying anxiety, trauma, or other mental health issue. Extremism functions as a drug of choice, a short-cut to numbing pain. Our intervention effort involves de-escalating from the ‘shortcut’ path back to a place where the core issues driving the initial turn to extremism can be addressed. When properly understood, the same vulnerabilities that were exploited by extremist groomers can instead become openings for healthy engagement. Our strategic approach involves guiding families and other potential mentors to find these openings and begin to redirect the individual, replacing the unhealthy influence of the traffickers/groomers.

Our team brings an array of professional and personal experiences to guide interventions. We are clinicians with international experience, as well as survivors of extremism – including former extremists who understand the radicalization and deradicalization process intimately. Click here to read about our Intervention Specialists.

Since launching the helpline in 2017, Parents for Peace (P4P) has been pioneering a public health approach to extremism prevention. The confidential helpline has assisted hundreds of families and individuals from a wide range of societies struggling with different ideologies, from far right to far left, Islamism and eco-terrorism. 

 

Do you need help? Call our toll-free helpline today at 1-884-497-3223.


We are not here to judge. We are here to help.

As one of our co-founders, Monica Holley, often reminds us, “this is a no-judgment zone.” We understand that no one is born an extremist, nor does radicalization happen overnight. It is a complex issue that can affect any family. The important thing to remember is that you are not alone in this struggle. Parents for Peace is here to help you. 

Our interventions involve educating and guiding families and their loved ones to a healthy path of recovery. Our intervention teams (including Exit Interventionists and Intervention Specialists) work through specific and agreed-upon goals with our participants, working to get to the core issues driving the initial turn to extremism. When properly understood, the same vulnerabilities exploited by extremist recruiters can instead become openings for healthy engagement. 


What Signs Should I Be Looking For?

Engagement with hateful ideologies and groups looks different for every person. As an intimate bystander (e.g., parent, friend, partner, spouse), you are one of the first people to witness unusual behavior or have conversations with your loved ones about their hateful ideology or extremist group membership.  

Common signs include:

  1. Ideological obsession, or a persistent focus on extremist views. In your loved one, this might look like (i) constantly talking about the ideology, (ii) looping on the components of the ideology, (iii) an infatuation with one or more individuals associated with the ideology, and (iv) having a strong desire to be argumentative about core components of their ideology.
  2. Appearance changes or unexpected shifts in clothing, hairstyles, or tattoos tied to hateful ideologies. In your loved one, this might look like (i) sudden changes in clothing, (ii) new haircut associated with a specific ideology, (iii) new tattoos associated with specific ideology, and a (iv) desire to get rid of pieces of clothing from their life prior to adhering to the ideology and/or extremist group member.
  3. Social isolation, or pulling away from loved ones and further aligning with the hate group. In your loved one, this might look like (i) pulling away from loved ones and friends, including family, friends, social groups, and activities, (ii) dropping. out of school or university, (iii) neglecting social interaction with peers, and (iv) pulling back from social interactions within their professional environment.

If you are concerned about a loved one but are not sure they are radicalizing or are radicalized, please call our helpline today!


What Can I Do Now If I'm Worried About A Loved One?

  1. Connect and Engage: Extremist groups prey on unresolved grievances (defined as real or imagined wrong or other cause for complaint, protest, or violence), fear, anxiety, and uncertainty. Strengthen your bond with your loved one to counteract this influence by
    • engaging in shared activities like watching movies, cooking, or playing games. Your time with them is a powerful affirmation that they are valued.
    • encouraging dialogue with open-ended questions, allowing them to express themselves.  
  1. Limit Media Exposure: With the pervasive nature of media, it’s vital to shield young minds from harmful content. Try to minimize exposure to distressing news and alarming material. 
  2. Prioritize Self-Care: Coping with a loved one’s engagement in hateful ideologies is stressful. Remember, your well-being is crucial in helping them disengage. Allocate time for activities and interactions with family and friends to mitigate stress.
  3. Seek Professional Support: Don’t face this challenge alone. Call our confidential helpline at 1-844-497-3223. For immediate threats, contact emergency services at 911 or 988 for mental health crises.


What Happens When I Call Parents for Peace?

1. Contact Us – You can call our helpline at (1-844-497-3223) or email us at help@parents4peace.org. Please let us know the best times to connect with you in your message.

2. Intake Process – Chat with a helpline operator! During this 30 to 60-minute-long discussion, the helpline staff member will get to know you and your reason for calling.

3. Schedule Intervention Sessions – After your intake call, a case coordinator will reach out to schedule regular sessions with a team of exit interventionists trained to educate, coach, and support you.

4. Participate in Intervention Sessions – Parents for Peace provides two types of intervention sessions: indirect and direct intervention sessions. 

  • Indirect Intervention Sessions – As an intimate bystander (e.g., parents, friends, partners, etc.), you will meet with our team of interventionists to educate you on the radicalization process and work with you to develop a toolbox to help the person you are concerned about. We also provide intervention sessions for or that incorporate the individual of concern. 
  • Direct Intervention Sessions – As an individual who is looking to leave an extremist group or movement, you will meet with our team of interventionists, who will support you through this process. 

5. Off-Ramping – Ideally, once your situation is on a healthy and steady path to recovery, we will start speaking to you about off-ramping and decreasing the services provided by P4P. In this phase, we will also evaluate what secondary services might be of assistance to you. 

Parents for Peace helpline and intervention services are offered free of charge to participants. As a participant in P4P programming, you can initiate a pause or terminate services at any time.